oh, and about kely/pam, pam/kelzy : one word... not even : 2 letters : PM but only if you want to clear the situation... if not, then don't PM... but don't talk about it here either !
EDIT : i'm not kicking anyone off of this thread or any other thread, i just don't make my laundry in public, and would expect other people not to do it either... question of respect imo... for instance, when Kelzy asked if it was a joke, i would have replied through PM not to make the story public... (that's what i wrote in PM to who contacted me, but i thought it would be of public interest)