I kind of agree with you Cynthia; to a cetain point. In my case, I met MIKA already but FOR ME; I just told him how much I love his music and didn't give him any type of gift. He gave me his autograph but I felt weird because I didn't give him anything in return. I am going to two shows this time (thank GOD) and I wanted to give him a small bear dressed just like him. If I have the opportunity to meet him again, I want to ask him for a hug but at the same time I want to give him something in return. I am so confused right now.