(everything i say will probably already be said but too be honest i don't care)
if you were to suddenly become a well known person, like celeb style and everyone that likes what you do etc was to suddenly know what you like, do, birthdays, where you live, what you do to relax and all that, would you like it? everyone that knows your name automatically believes that they are going to be your partner and live blissfully happy together for the rest of time and then when you do find someone, your fans suddenly don't like you, or threaten to commit suicide (don't laugh i've known people to do it with over people). would that not then mean, just to keep your fans happy, you would then live your own life unhappy and unsettled?
and then you get people that slag you off and critise everything you do and what you say. what are you meant to do then? hit back or just take it in your stride? with no offence intended, we could be a little too protective of someone that we don't know in person. we post threads about people who critise him and take the mick, and yet we are the ones that take offence, if he doesn't have a problem with it, when then do we have one and find every oppotunity to hate the critisers??
we only see one side of him right? the happy person on the stage, tele, radio, whatever, and because of that, we seem to think that we know what he is like. but we don't really do we? one person may have many different sides to them. they only allow the side they want people to see, as it could be what they think people want to see, just because we have seen and maybe talked to him doesn't really mean that we know him.
instead of trying to find out everything possible about him, i think we should back off a bit, let him own a private life, coz we all know what it's like with those annoying friends that want to know exactly what you are doing at exactly every part of the day. if he was to get a partner, we shouldn't get on the band wagon of hate and go on about how you'd be the right one for him, we should just be happy and support him and that special person in his life. i know it'll be hard, i'd be first to admit, but he lives his life as well right? we aren't the ones living it for him.
i don't mean to drag every negative thing forwards like this but i do think that we can be a little unfair sometimes.
just because he cancels a gig doesn't mean we should be stupid like it, but you know, if his ill wouldn't you prefer for him to get better and perform at his best than perform when his ill and be at a bad show, and know his suffering after it???
lets just ease of his case for a bit, let him have his space and do what he wants without us being a pain in the bum for him
with love hunny
xx