artsyfartsy17 Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 You are both gorgeous girls and the guys are just too intimidated by you. If you want to date a guy, ask him out. Your confidence will blow him away, because it's so rare. (especially in high school.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mika4Life13 Posted October 14, 2008 Author Share Posted October 14, 2008 Just because everyone else has dated doesn't mean it's an embarrassment that you haven't. What's the point of dating a guy just to say you've dated someone? You dont live in teenage society do you? My point is, I wont, i dont, and i havent dated someone just to date someone. But usually the case is that they have found someone they liked and dated them, which i havent, which is a bit outcast, which is a bit frustrating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
englishrose Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 Just because everyone else has dated doesn't mean it's an embarrassment that you haven't. What's the point of dating a guy just to say you've dated someone? Well, exactly. But I can't help but wonder just how long I'll end up waiting... AS IF, MY LITTLE FRIEND! they're probably just imtimidated of you. Right, yeah, 'cause I'm sooo imposing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mika4Life13 Posted October 14, 2008 Author Share Posted October 14, 2008 You are both gorgeous girls and the guys are just too intimidated by you. If you want to date a guy, ask him out. Your confidence will blow him away, because it's so rare. (especially in high school.) I cant do that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
artsyfartsy17 Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 You dont live in teenage society do you? My point is, I wont, i dont, and i havent dated someone just to date someone. But usually the case is that they have found someone they liked and dated them, which i havent, which is a bit outcast, which is a bit frustrating. I don't, but I only recently left it, and I'm currently studying it in one of my classes. Why would you be outcast because you haven't dated someone? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mika4Life13 Posted October 14, 2008 Author Share Posted October 14, 2008 Well, exactly. But I can't help but wonder just how long I'll end up waiting... Right, yeah, 'cause I'm sooo imposing You looks so artsy and intelligent and foxxy and i'd find that intimidating Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mika4Life13 Posted October 14, 2008 Author Share Posted October 14, 2008 I don't, but I only recently left it, and I'm currently studying it in one of my classes. Why would you be outcast because you haven't dated someone? Because it's like "Why hasnt she dated someone? I wonder what's wrong with her?" *lifts up arm pit and sniffs* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
englishrose Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 You are both gorgeous girls and the guys are just too intimidated by you. If you want to date a guy, ask him out. Your confidence will blow him away, because it's so rare. (especially in high school.) *whines* Yeahhhhh, but...what do you say? And that's assuming I work up the confidence which is unlikely... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
englishrose Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 You looks so artsy and intelligent and foxxy and i'd find that intimidating Well you're all that AND you're tall. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mika4Life13 Posted October 14, 2008 Author Share Posted October 14, 2008 Well you're all that AND you're tall. I'm really not. Just tall Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
artsyfartsy17 Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 Well, exactly. But I can't help but wonder just how long I'll end up waiting... Well, I think I've made clear my stance on "waiting" for a guy to ask you out. I cant do that. Why not? I did it. Three times. And you're much more comfortable with guys than I was. Because it's like "Why hasnt she dated someone? I wonder what's wrong with her?" *lifts up arm pit and sniffs* That's a classic teenage thought. And you soon realize once you outgrow the teen years that nobody was ever thinking that at all, and you were completely paranoid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mika4Life13 Posted October 14, 2008 Author Share Posted October 14, 2008 Well, I think I've made clear my stance on "waiting" for a guy to ask you out. Why not? I did it. Three times. And you're much more comfortable with guys than I was. That's a classic teenage thought. And you soon realize once you outgrow the teen years that nobody was ever thinking that at all, and you were completely paranoid. I am not amy the great though. Im quiet, sometimes insane, alexandra. WHo doesnt do that. And doesnt know anyone to do that to.. *sighs* I should go to bed now before i make a balloon boyfriend.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
englishrose Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 Well, I think I've made clear my stance on "waiting" for a guy to ask you out. Yeah, I know, I know. And the insane thing is, I feel the same way but I just...can't make that step. It frustrates me to no end. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
artsyfartsy17 Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 *whines* Yeahhhhh, but...what do you say? And that's assuming I work up the confidence which is unlikely... Well, before high school, when "dating" was very primitive, I settled for just telling the guy I liked him. If he liked me back, great. If not, whatever. I'd lived through worse. So...that's it. "Oh, and by the way, I like you." In high school, dating actually becomes dating, and all you do is start slow: "Hey, wanna go to a movie with me?" etc. Well you're all that AND you're tall. I HATED being tall. The boys took forever to catch up, and in the meantime, I felt like Sasquatch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mika4Life13 Posted October 14, 2008 Author Share Posted October 14, 2008 *no one sees her post* *says goodnight again* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
englishrose Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 *no one sees her post* *says goodnight again* Goodnight Emmy! Sleep well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
artsyfartsy17 Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 I am not amy the great though. Im quiet, sometimes insane, alexandra. WHo doesnt do that. And doesnt know anyone to do that to.. *sighs* I should go to bed now before i make a balloon boyfriend.. I'm not Amy the great either. You simply refuse to believe that I'm painfully shy, don't you? The way I act online is not the way I act in person. Which you should know, as you have just admitted to being the same way. Nobody does it because everyone else is a coward. Show that you're different. Show that you're special. And YOU ARE. Just do it. Who cares what anyone else thinks? Who cares if he says no? The point is, you did it. Yeah, I know, I know. And the insane thing is, I feel the same way but I just...can't make that step. It frustrates me to no end. Me too. There's a millisecond, a sink or swim moment, where you force yourself to turn around and walk up to the guy, and then he turns around and is looking at you and you need to say something and your heart is about to explode and your hands are shaking, and you can either freeze up, or take a big gulp of air and just do it. If nothing else, it's a great adrenaline rush. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
artsyfartsy17 Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 Goodnight and sleep well, Emz.:huglove::huglove: Grow some courage. *zhhz* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mika4Life13 Posted October 14, 2008 Author Share Posted October 14, 2008 Night Oh and ames, i have courage believe it or not, hot french guy # 2 at camp, at a party i went and sat beside him. Eh, eh? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mika4Life13 Posted October 14, 2008 Author Share Posted October 14, 2008 I'm not Amy the great either. You simply refuse to believe that I'm painfully shy, don't you? The way I act online is not the way I act in person. Which you should know, as you have just admitted to being the same way. Nobody does it because everyone else is a coward. Show that you're different. Show that you're special. And YOU ARE. Just do it. Who cares what anyone else thinks? Who cares if he says no? The point is, you did it. Me too. There's a millisecond, a sink or swim moment, where you force yourself to turn around and walk up to the guy, and then he turns around and is looking at you and you need to say something and your heart is about to explode and your hands are shaking, and you can either freeze up, or take a big gulp of air and just do it. If nothing else, it's a great adrenaline rush. Wah wah wah, you probably are but arent admitting it. No, no, im like this in person, but I am not comfortable in school yet so im awkward shy one, but i will be insane in a month or 2 : Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
artsyfartsy17 Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 That's great! Do it again at lunch tomorrow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mika4Life13 Posted October 14, 2008 Author Share Posted October 14, 2008 I go to lucy's for lunch, larkin would be creeped if i did it to her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
artsyfartsy17 Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 Wah wah wah, you probably are but arent admitting it. No, no, im like this in person, but I am not comfortable in school yet so im awkward shy one, but i will be insane in a month or 2 : You should ask Vanessa or Mana about the first time they met me. That'll be enough answer for you. So in a month or two, you'll ask someone out? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
englishrose Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 Me too. There's a millisecond, a sink or swim moment, where you force yourself to turn around and walk up to the guy, and then he turns around and is looking at you and you need to say something and your heart is about to explode and your hands are shaking, and you can either freeze up, or take a big gulp of air and just do it. If nothing else, it's a great adrenaline rush. Yeah...I had a couple of moments like that and then I chickened out in the last second. Looking back on it, it's probably better that I didn't 'cause the guy turned out to be a bit of an ass but still. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mika4Life13 Posted October 14, 2008 Author Share Posted October 14, 2008 You should ask Vanessa or Mana about the first time they met me. That'll be enough answer for you. So in a month or two, you'll ask someone out? i dont really...want to I want someone to ask me, someone random so i can meet new people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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