DarkLight Posted December 27, 2008 Share Posted December 27, 2008 I shall be back at some point but i'm off for a while if you wanna contact me then my Real friends on here know where to find me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sienna Posted December 27, 2008 Share Posted December 27, 2008 I shall be back at some point but i'm off for a while if you wanna contact me then my Real friends on here know where to find me I'll miss you! Welcome back when you can! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarkLight Posted December 27, 2008 Author Share Posted December 27, 2008 I'll miss you! Welcome back when you can! aww thanks i will chat soon:punk: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chickadee Posted December 27, 2008 Share Posted December 27, 2008 Dark Light! You surprised me. Okaaaay, um, all the best with whatever you're doing outside of the forum and we'll look forward to seeing you back here! Make sure you make a return thread:wink2: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarkLight Posted December 27, 2008 Author Share Posted December 27, 2008 Dark Light! You surprised me. Okaaaay, um, all the best with whatever you're doing outside of the forum and we'll look forward to seeing you back here! Make sure you make a return thread:wink2: I surprised you:shocked: well some people (naming no names) have surprised me on here too:shocked: I shall be back in a short while you can't get rid of me for good lol:naughty: I just have a bit of stuff to do a lot of it takes time & planning & so I won't be able to come online much:thumbdown: hey ho I'll be back very soon, no doubt before the new year have a good new year by the way:punk: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vanessa Posted December 27, 2008 Share Posted December 27, 2008 Aww I'll miss you I will also take a break in January cause of the uni exams ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarkLight Posted December 27, 2008 Author Share Posted December 27, 2008 Aww I'll miss you I will also take a break in January cause of the uni exams ! aww well good luck with them I'm sure you'll do well:thumb_yello: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chickadee Posted December 27, 2008 Share Posted December 27, 2008 I surprised you:shocked: well some people (naming no names) have surprised me on here too:shocked: I shall be back in a short while you can't get rid of me for good lol:naughty: I just have a bit of stuff to do a lot of it takes time & planning & so I won't be able to come online much:thumbdown: hey ho I'll be back very soon, no doubt before the new year have a good new year by the way:punk: Oh, people surprise me on here all the time. You'd think I'd be used to it by now:bleh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarkLight Posted December 27, 2008 Author Share Posted December 27, 2008 Oh, people surprise me on here all the time. You'd think I'd be used to it by now:bleh: I was referring to some negativity actually:thumbdown: I thought this was a pleasant forum & that everyone was grown up & not immature, childish bullies I was wrong:thumbdown: (but that's a different story alltogether) and NOT the reason I'm leaving anyhow it's just 'cause I'm busy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chickadee Posted December 27, 2008 Share Posted December 27, 2008 (edited) Actually, I was also talking about negativity. About a year ago I saw the first hints and glimmers that not all was as bright and shiny around this place as I'd thought (as some of my newbie-ness started to wear off) and since then I've seen plenty. And it keeps surprising me, even though I feel it shouldn't anymore. Edited December 27, 2008 by chickadee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarkLight Posted December 27, 2008 Author Share Posted December 27, 2008 Actually, I was also talking about negativity. About a year ago I saw the first hints and glimmers that not all was as bright and shiny around this place as I'd thought (as some of my newbie-ness started to wear off) and since then I've seen plenty. And it keeps surprising me, even though I feel it shouldn't anymore. hmm sucks doesn't it:thumbdown: well after 11 months here I've started to notice bullying directed at me a fair few times by people who are old enough to know better (they're older than I am & i'm 23) they need to grow up in my opinion anyhow It's in no way as bad as the derren brown fan forum Everyone on there is nasty & bullies others so that's why I left there permanently!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarkLight Posted December 27, 2008 Author Share Posted December 27, 2008 by the way if any of my friends on here wanna contact me then my myspace link (if you're not already on my friendslist is under my user name here) and my facebook is here http://www.facebook.com/home.php?ref=home#/profile.php?id=772829831&ref=name I'll be on there more than here when I have the odd spare moment or two!! catching up with my friends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vanessa Posted December 27, 2008 Share Posted December 27, 2008 aww well good luck with them I'm sure you'll do well:thumb_yello: Thank you Chantelle I also wish you good luck your work and I 've added you on facebook:thumb_yello: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nico_collard Posted December 27, 2008 Share Posted December 27, 2008 hmm sucks doesn't it:thumbdown: well after 11 months here I've started to notice bullying directed at me a fair few times by people who are old enough to know better (they're older than I am & i'm 23) they need to grow up in my opinion I'm not replying to try and change your mind... if you want to leave, that's up to you... but I thought I'd mention this... If that's the case then you need to mention it to the mods... that's what they're there for... And even though you said you're not leaving because of the negativity I hope you think about this.. if you leave, you're leaving something unfinished... maybe working through it with the person you are having issues with can help... And to be honest... you've got a lot of strong personalities and people from lots of countries on here... you're going to get differences of opinion... If you mention to them in a calm way that something someone has said to you has offended you, they usually will understand and ease off a bit (for lack of a better word)... people on here are pretty reasonable... Even as a moderator I had a lot of arguments with people on here... I had a few arguments with Christine and I get along with her now... and even with Niki27... And if you want to talk, you know where I am... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xlindee Posted December 27, 2008 Share Posted December 27, 2008 Aaaw that's very bad news, that people behave like that. Okay, I can say I have a dislike for some people on here, but I certainly don't show them that. If they really did something bad, then you should contact the mods, as some others said too. Anyways, goodbye:huglove: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Foxxy Posted December 27, 2008 Share Posted December 27, 2008 I shall be back at some point but i'm off for a while if you wanna contact me then my Real friends on here know where to find me Oh, thats kinda surprising, but good luck to you! Come back as soon as you can! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iadoremika Posted December 27, 2008 Share Posted December 27, 2008 Chantelle, don't forget to come back! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melaniejazmin Posted December 27, 2008 Share Posted December 27, 2008 oh, i wish you good luck then! and happy new year if i dont see you here at the moment. I hope all can be solved as soon as possible! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Christine Posted December 27, 2008 Share Posted December 27, 2008 Even as a moderator I had a lot of arguments with people on here... I had a few arguments with Christine and I get along with her now... and even with Niki27... Oh I thought we always got along. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Niki27 Posted December 27, 2008 Share Posted December 27, 2008 Even as a moderator I had a lot of arguments with people on here... I had a few arguments with Christine and I get along with her now... and even with Niki27... How am I supposed to take this ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nico_collard Posted December 28, 2008 Share Posted December 28, 2008 Oh I thought we always got along. Yeah well... for the most part we did! I'm sure I remember a few "differences of opinion" How am I supposed to take this ? Ummmmmmmm.... You know I love you guys... now... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mika-fan1001 Posted December 28, 2008 Share Posted December 28, 2008 I shall be back at some point but i'm off for a while if you wanna contact me then my Real friends on here know where to find me aww im said to see you leave for a while! come back soon! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mari62 Posted December 28, 2008 Share Posted December 28, 2008 Aw Chantelle, sorry you're leaving even if for a short time! Wish you all the best and come back as soon as you can and feel like to! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
im_stuck_in_the_middle Posted December 28, 2008 Share Posted December 28, 2008 We'll always be here. .. please come visit every once in a while if you can !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarkLight Posted December 28, 2008 Author Share Posted December 28, 2008 (edited) I'm not replying to try and change your mind... if you want to leave, that's up to you... but I thought I'd mention this... If that's the case then you need to mention it to the mods... that's what they're there for... And even though you said you're not leaving because of the negativity I hope you think about this.. if you leave, you're leaving something unfinished... maybe working through it with the person you are having issues with can help... And to be honest... you've got a lot of strong personalities and people from lots of countries on here... you're going to get differences of opinion... If you mention to them in a calm way that something someone has said to you has offended you, they usually will understand and ease off a bit (for lack of a better word)... people on here are pretty reasonable... Even as a moderator I had a lot of arguments with people on here... I had a few arguments with Christine and I get along with her now... and even with Niki27... And if you want to talk, you know where I am... i tried to reason with the people concerned but they were just concerned with being childish & flinging insults at me all the time they wouldn't back down:sneaky2: I can't be bothered with it all anymore let them carry on their childish ways if they wanna i don't give a damn:sneaky2: thanks to everyone leaving me a message here I shall sorta 'drop by' now & then over the coming week or two but won't be on here for hours & post on the boards as much as I'd normally do so see you all soon and btw i have pmed a mod Edited December 28, 2008 by DarkLight Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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