sallyh Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 ok so i said 'Aidan, I don't understand why you couldn't have said these things to me in person. Then at least we could have talked things through. X' and he's replied: 'I just couldn't. You know how much I love you and i was just too overwhelmed at dinner to speak. xxx' I'M GOING TO GO INSANE. are any of you guys in a releationship?? i should probs go ladies .... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sallyh Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 The *coghs* boy I'm interested in kiiinda looks like Mika now when I think about it ........mayeb I've always liked that "look" oh really? thats amazing ... are you just 'interested'?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotdlp Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 yea i was gonna say ... 1.30 is perfect time! but don't worry ... lol and strangely i get worse when its like afternoon time.. i think i'm in the wrong time zones Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jassisa Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 oh really? thats amazing ... are you just 'interested'?? The thing is he's my best friend, and I've started realize that I have deeper feelings for him And I've never been "in love" before... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotdlp Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 ok so i said 'Aidan, I don't understand why you couldn't have said these things to me in person. Then at least we could have talked things through. X' and he's replied: 'I just couldn't. You know how much I love you and i was just too overwhelmed at dinner to speak. xxx' I'M GOING TO GO INSANE. are any of you guys in a releationship?? i should probs go ladies .... oh no... hmm.. what was he like at dinner then? did he seem bothered? upset? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotdlp Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 The thing is he's my best friend, and I've started realize that I have deeper feelings for him And I've never been "in love" before... aw jassy !! .. bless Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buttnugget040 Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 The thing is he's my best friend, and I've started realize that I have deeper feelings for him And I've never been "in love" before... awwwwwwww.....how adorable ! lol me either Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sallyh Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 The thing is he's my best friend, and I've started realize that I have deeper feelings for him And I've never been "in love" before... thats a really tricky situation. what do you think he feels about you? ps: if its any advice, i used to have a guy best friend then we tried being 'together' and it ended really badly. i don't know if you can ever go back to just being friends after ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jassisa Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 ok so i said 'Aidan, I don't understand why you couldn't have said these things to me in person. Then at least we could have talked things through. X' and he's replied: 'I just couldn't. You know how much I love you and i was just too overwhelmed at dinner to speak. xxx' I'M GOING TO GO INSANE. are any of you guys in a releationship?? i should probs go ladies .... Haha ignore him! I do however know how annoying persistent boys can be Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buttnugget040 Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 awwwwwww man i forgot to write in lime green....oh well ! I say that too much ......hmmmmmmm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jassisa Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 thats a really tricky situation. what do you think he feels about you? ps: if its any advice, i used to have a guy best friend then we tried being 'together' and it ended really badly. i don't know if you can ever go back to just being friends after ... I know I've heard that from other people to. The great thing is that I know he's always had a crush on me... But we were way to young so I think I did the right thing to just be friends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sallyh Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 oh no... hmm.. what was he like at dinner then? did he seem bothered? upset? at dinner he just seemed upset and stuff. to be honest, i thought he would be expecting it as things haven't been right between us for a while. we were together for like 3 months so not overly long and for like the last 2 weeks its been strange between us and i also feel too young to be in a serious serious releationship, you know? (he's 29, i'm 22) i just don't know what to do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jassisa Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 awwwwwww man i forgot to write in lime green....oh well ! I say that too much ......hmmmmmmm Hahaha! I love lime bacardi breezers mmmm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sallyh Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 awwwwwww man i forgot to write in lime green....oh well ! I say that too much ......hmmmmmmm you're so cute!! I know I've heard that from other people to. The great thing is that I know he's always had a crush on me... But we were way to young so I think I did the right thing to just be friends well that different if he likes you too! how long have you been friends for? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buttnugget040 Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 at dinner he just seemed upset and stuff. to be honest, i thought he would be expecting it as things haven't been right between us for a while. we were together for like 3 months so not overly long and for like the last 2 weeks its been strange between us and i also feel too young to be in a serious serious releationship, you know? (he's 29, i'm 22) i just don't know what to do hmmmmmmmmm....sorry im not any help! i dont have any experience in that field Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sallyh Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 hmmmmmmmmm....sorry im not any help! i dont have any experience in that field don't worry sweetie. listen girls i have to go. thanks so much for helping me! love you all lots and speak tomorrow xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jassisa Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 at dinner he just seemed upset and stuff. to be honest, i thought he would be expecting it as things haven't been right between us for a while. we were together for like 3 months so not overly long and for like the last 2 weeks its been strange between us and i also feel too young to be in a serious serious releationship, you know? (he's 29, i'm 22) i just don't know what to do You shouldn't have to feel this uncomfortable, just stop talking to him, you've said what u wanted to say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotdlp Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 at dinner he just seemed upset and stuff. to be honest, i thought he would be expecting it as things haven't been right between us for a while. we were together for like 3 months so not overly long and for like the last 2 weeks its been strange between us and i also feel too young to be in a serious serious releationship, you know? (he's 29, i'm 22) i just don't know what to do oh hm.. yeah.. well if you really don't wanna be with him you shouldn't feel pressured too i made the mistake of going out with a boy just cos he really liked me.. but there's no point in making others happy if its just gonna make you be down? sometimes you gotta be selfish Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buttnugget040 Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 don't worry sweetie. listen girls i have to go. thanks so much for helping me! love you all lots and speak tomorrow xxx GOODBYE!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sallyh Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 You shouldn't have to feel this uncomfortable, just stop talking to him, you've said what u wanted to say. thanks angel xxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jassisa Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 don't worry sweetie. listen girls i have to go. thanks so much for helping me! love you all lots and speak tomorrow xxx Bye hun! *hugs* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotdlp Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 don't worry sweetie. listen girls i have to go. thanks so much for helping me! love you all lots and speak tomorrow xxx ah ok, byyee! hope it goes well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sallyh Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 oh hm.. yeah.. well if you really don't wanna be with him you shouldn't feel pressured too i made the mistake of going out with a boy just cos he really liked me.. but there's no point in making others happy if its just gonna make you be down? sometimes you gotta be selfish that is such good advice. you only live once right? speak soon xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jassisa Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 oh hm.. yeah.. well if you really don't wanna be with him you shouldn't feel pressured too i made the mistake of going out with a boy just cos he really liked me.. but there's no point in making others happy if its just gonna make you be down? sometimes you gotta be selfish And that's not selfish! Geez you have the right to date whoever you like, hate when girls get guilty feelings. Boys sure don't Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotdlp Posted August 4, 2007 Share Posted August 4, 2007 that is such good advice. you only live once right? speak soon xxx thanks exactly and why live it the bad way And that's not selfish!Geez you have the right to date whoever you like, hate when girls get guilty feelings. Boys sure don't yeah.. thats true.. i just meant selfish in the way of thinking of yourself mostly we're obviously the good creatures on earth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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