FREDDIESDOUBLE Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 Ok in you partner (boyfriend / girlfriend) you can have looks or personality ....... if you had to choose which one would you go for ??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EnFa Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 personality.. 100%! Duh.. Unless he had good looks AND a greeeat personality .. Yay! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Droopsy Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 yeah well duh, personality... What good is it when you have to live with someone you can't stand???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BexxY Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 definately a Gooood personality Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steph Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 Ok in you partner (boyfriend / girlfriend) you can have looks or personality ....... if you had to choose which one would you go for ??? definitely personality.... i think great character outweighs looks every time , you can have the most powerful , beautiful looks and no or little personailt to carry them off...no forme lokks come second.... with mika i fell for his voice and perrsonality, i had no idea what he looked like.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FREDDIESDOUBLE Posted May 24, 2007 Author Share Posted May 24, 2007 Remember to vote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steph Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 Remember to vote thanks, just went back to do so... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hunnyangel Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 i have plenty of good looking friends but none have the personality!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Akim Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 It has to be personality; I know its cliched and obviously looks play a part in the attraction but it only take's you so far when there's no substance... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haeschen02 Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 I voted "personality" as well although I think that for a first meeting good looks are also important. I won't go out with someone who is absolutely ugly but "a really nice guy". Sorry, but when I can't even look at him... On the other hand I wouldn't stay long with someone who looks incredibly hot but is an a**hole when it comes to everything else. It's always hard to find the right person. I'm glad I have:wub2: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steph Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 as there are many great people who have a fantastic personality but not quite the looks....i think personality can just make a person, wheras with great looks, it will initially hook a person but this might only be short-lived if the personality is lacking..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hunnyangel Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 as there are many great people who have a fantastic personality but not quite the looks....i think personality can just make a person, wheras with great looks, it will initially hook a person but this might only be short-lived if the personality is lacking..... yeah i spose that's why models are blonde!!! lol (no offence to models of course!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steph Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 yeah i spose that's why models are blonde!!! lol (no offence to models of course!) i think models are blond or dark and have great looks , heights and figures cause they have to leave an instant impression, the personality does not come into it much as they are only there to sell...fast and seductively Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Weather Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 A little from column A and a little from column B!! Seriously, personality goes a loooooooong way!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hunnyangel Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 i think models are blond or dark and have great looks , heights and figures cause they have to leave an instant impression, the personality does not come into it much as they are only there to sell...fast and seductively lol and no offensece intended to the men but they only care about looks! i'm sure freddie is different like the other fellas on the site but the blokes i know only want a hot chick not one with personality!! (this is only experience!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Droopsy Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 as there are many great people who have a fantastic personality but not quite the looks....i think personality can just make a person, wheras with great looks, it will initially hook a person but this might only be short-lived if the personality is lacking..... yeah, doesn't give much hope for hooking someone if you lack the looks then:shocked: poor me:boxed: obliged to a life of loneliness:boxed: (lol, don't worry, not trying to be pathetic or wanting reassurance lol) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liz Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 Personality. It's a little odd, really... I used to kind of wonder a little what I would really go for, until I started developing an interest in a guy who I originally felt nothing about. Then I began to notice that I liked his sense of humor, kindness, how he converses... It was only after that I found physical aspects about him that were attractive. So yes, all in all, it would have to be personality. Appearance only counts for so much, it can't really keep me hooked like a winning presentation of individuality does. My question is, though... What physical things could a person have that makes them attractive to you? Like, would it be how they laugh, or smile, or move... Things like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teremola Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 definitely personality Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FREDDIESDOUBLE Posted May 24, 2007 Author Share Posted May 24, 2007 Interesting ..................... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hunnyangel Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 Interesting ..................... erm freddie are you seeing someone for their looks...!!! lol i love you really hunny! xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Diana Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 I chose personality because I had to choose one or the other. I have to say though that looks are really important too. It's not so much prettyness but more cleanliness lol. To give an example, I have a thing with teeth. I can not and will not go out with someone who has gross teeth. He can be the most amazing guy in the universe but if he has awful teeth I won't give him a chance. Maybe it's shallow but it's just how it is. Also, I can't "do" someone I'm physically repulsed by so looks may not be the main thing when it comes to a relationship, they do matter. No wonder I'm single. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FREDDIESDOUBLE Posted May 24, 2007 Author Share Posted May 24, 2007 erm freddie are you seeing someone for their looks...!!!lol i love you really hunny! xx Meeeeeeeeeeee .. noooooooooooo Its a really really curious question for me , and now having a wealth of ladddiessss I can ask and find out Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hunnyangel Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 Meeeeeeeeeeee .. noooooooooooo Its a really really curious question for me , and now having a wealth of ladddiessss I can ask and find out lol i didn't mean it!! it's just funny!! i hope that we are helping you!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FREDDIESDOUBLE Posted May 24, 2007 Author Share Posted May 24, 2007 lol i didn't mean it!! it's just funny!! i hope that we are helping you!! You are helping me ... :biggrin2: Actually its a really interesting ..... <sits back and watches> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
curly Posted May 24, 2007 Share Posted May 24, 2007 PERSONALITY! Imagine having a partner that was boring with none or little personality! It'd be like walking around with a statue! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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